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INTRODUCTION - Why Men’s Ministry?
While this question may appear unnecessary, it is important that we clarify what is meant by ministry, as it relates to men. We must understand our unique role as godly men in an ungodly world. And we must understand how the world has impacted and influenced men in general, and what God’s Word says about who we are, what we are to become, and what we are to do. Because our churches are presently losing the battle for the hearts of men (husbands/fathers)?Generation Reached for Christ Builders (1910-1946) 65% The Bridger generation represents 72 million people, 2nd only
to the Boomers. In recent years, many men have seemingly lost interest. Since 1991, church attendance, Bible reading, Sunday School participation, volunteering and financial giving have all decreased among men. Out of 96 million men over 18 years old in the United States, only 26 million say they go to church, many for the wrong reasons. Of the 70 million men that don't attend any church, 80% of them say they grew up with some sort of church background. These men aren't necessarily opposed to going to church. They just don't see churches as being "male friendly." While many men in our churches are strong Christians and active in missions, most men (husbands and fathers) in our communities are spiritually detached. Are our churches losing the battle for the hearts of men? With no “spiritual compass,” many men are in bondage to debt, captured by pornography, and caught up in addictions and sin. Men are confused about masculinity and are disillusioned by the false promises of wealth and power. Many men abuse their wives and children, or have abandoned their families physically and/or emotionally. Men have rejected their commitment to marriage, and as a result, families are fragmented and fragile. Marriage, once considered precious and lasting, is no longer seen as safe. Young (and not so young) people are seeking all kinds of alternative lifestyles. Recent developments in our country have opened a debate over the necessity for a constitutional amendment to protect what God intended for marriage.
Because Men are the Critical Mission Field in our Communities?Although called by God to be the spiritual leaders, most men are spiritually adrift. Many pastors and other Christian leaders see this as a major crisis and are recognizing the great need for their churches to reach out to men, being sensitive to their needs. Churches must involve men, not only in projects and missions, but in helping each other grow in Christ, teaching them how to become better husbands, fathers, leaders and witnesses to other men in the community. While men and women are created equal (Gen. 1:27), men are strategic (1 Cor.11:3, 9-11). Therefore, men are the critical mission field in our communities. If churches will respond to create “male friendly,” intentional outreach ministries to and for men, God’s order can be restored, marriages can be saved, families and communities can be turned to Christ. As Steve Farrar suggests, “Men must lead the charge.” Because Men are Strategic to Saving the Nuclear Family?Consider the following results of a survey completed a few years ago and reported by Focus on the Family Publishing:
Fatherless households produce:
These glaring statistics shout the paramount importance of churches becoming more intentional in their development of Men's Ministries that will attract and grow men for Christ. If you reach the men, you will reach the families. But to reach the men you have to understand their condition and their issues, intentionally enter into their world, and specifically address their needs. Because it is the Biblical Mandate?NKJ 2 Timothy 2:2 And the things that you have heard from me among many witnesses, commit these to faithful men who will be able to teach others also. We are commanded to have Men’s Ministry! The majority of the worshipers in the early church were men. They were not just males taking up pew space, but strong, earthy men who were truly alive in Christ! Men who did not attend church just to please their wives, to fulfill religious tradition, or to go on a power trip, but men who were there to rock their world!
Because God deserves it!All of the reasons mentioned up to this point are noble in nature; however, they are all about us! They are focused on meeting our needs, the needs of other men, or our performance. This shows that our motive for ministry needs to be examined in the light of the truth. The Bible teaches that our life is to be all about God! Our life is not for our pleasure, it's for God's pleasure. God created us for His pleasure, not for ours. Now, it does not mean that we do not get pleasure, but that's not the purpose. We are designed, redeemed, sustained, and powered by the Holy Spirit to bring glory and honor to God! Many Men’s Ministries have failed due to seeking to do a lot of noble works without focusing on the main thing – bringing glory to God. We need to ask ourselves often: What does God get out of our Men’s Ministry? Then follow up with: What, God, do You want to get out of our Men’s Ministry? The truth is we need Men’s Ministry in order to help men learn:
As we focus on seeking God first, we will find that God will take care of all the other things Himself. NLT Matthew 6:33: “And he will give you all you need from day to day if you live for Him and make the Kingdom of God your primary concern. Furthermore, we can help men to honor God by teaching them that victorious Christian living:
Additionally, we can help men honor God by teaching them the strategies for winning the race:
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As
God’s appointed spiritual head of his household, when a man
accepts and grows in Christ, his family will follow. There is something
in the hardwiring of creation that naturally causes wives and children
to look to husbands and fathers to lead out, especially spiritually.
More importantly, it is Biblical (Ephesians. 5:22-33, 6:1-4). Satan
knows that and tries to keep men convinced of their self-sufficiency.
Only in the company of other men will we fully understand the world’s
pull on us, the pull which keeps us from surrendering to and growing
in Christ. 
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